Saturday, September 28, 2013

1800 miles

One new car + four days + 1800 miles + one potty seat + one mommy + two toddlers = near perfection

I had drummed up this plan long in advance... fly to St.Louis, buy a car, drive home with the girls by myself. It seemed like a great idea to me, but everyone close to me made it clear that they thought I had gone mad. No one went as far to alert the authorities (at least I don't think they did), but I'm sure they considered it.

My Rationale: 1) 30% increase in airfare 2) cheaper car in St.Louis and 3) chance to revisit feeling of freedom associated with cross country road trips

Their concern:  1) exhaustion and frustration associated with endless driving and not having a break from two toddlers 2) snails pace likely with frequent potty stops 3) possibility that I would go mad for real and have a mental breakdown somewhere in Nebraska

While I had volunteers to make the drive with me, I was determined to go it alone. And I was right. The driving was great and the girls were great and I did indeed get that feeling of road trip freedom. In fact, I think it worked because I was alone. It meant that my attention was always on the girls. We sang songs. We talked about fields, tractors, trains, corn, cows, horses, hay bales, birds, trucks, road signs, , river water, lake water, clouds, mountains, rain, and the color of the straw in my iced mocha that day (it was usually green, but once it was red and boy did that stir things up :)). We stopped for picnics, playgrounds, and potty stops.

The only thing that would have made it better... camping. My plan was to camp as much as possible, but we drove until dark every night and didn't have a decent camping option available. That, and the girls were determined to keep moving. Each time they were given the option to stay and play or keep driving, they chose to keep driving. They really wanted to see their daddy. I did too, but it was torture to drive through Rocky Mountain National Park and the Uintas without being able to explore for awhile.


Cate looked like this most of the trip... her fish blanket, baby, owl, spider book, big puppy dog, and a new sandhill crane.





Lincoln, NE park. End of Day 1




Crane Trust Nature and Visitor Center: the site of the only major meltdown of the entire trip, and a double meltdown at that. Turns out they were more interested in gift shop toys than hiking the river trail.




Rocky Mountain National Park, Junior Ranger Fire Class




One of countless such potty stops.




On a successful bear hunt in the Uintas, Utah.




Hiding...







My favorite rest stop, Utah. Only a few hours to go.






Finally home after 4 days and 1800 miles. Reward = frozen yogurt!!


Where to begin?

Holy overwhelming photo sort...

We were in St.L in late June and early July. I guess I'll start there. Photos to come...

Fireworks

Swimming

Dogs

Zoo Animals

Cousins

Mum and Papa

Good times :)






Monday, July 22, 2013

Our Best Daddy

John was with his mom in Santa Cruz for Father's Day, so the girls and I had a little fun with sidewalk chalk to send him a sweet Father's Day message. Surfs Up!



We followed that up with a repeat of last years Dad's day photos to update the pictures in his office... thought it would be fun to continue this each year to see how the girls change over time.


Both photo shoots were disastrous, actually. It's hard to compare to their first year, but this was the hardest day I've had with the girls in recent memory. It's amazing any decent photos came out of it. We must have all just really been missing JR. Maybe it's the ultimate compliment when your family completely falls apart without you, right? Well then, we totally fall apart with you...  Happy Daddy's Day, JR! 

In Memory of Antoinette Robison

This was a tough month. Some of you may know this, some of you may not. John's mom fell in late May and broke her hip.  At first it appeared that the hip surgery and recovery would be manageable but after a series of complications, that seemed less likely. John spent the first three weeks of June in Santa Cruz with her and his sisters. The girls and I flew out for a portion of that time. After a few weeks in the hospital, his mom returned home with the support of hospice. She was very weak and very tired, but in the moments that she was awake, her sense of humor, lightness of being, and reassuring nature was fully intact. Antoinette Robison passed away on June 19th, surrounded by her children. She is terribly missed!



I'm so glad Lela and Cate had the opportunity to know her, if only for a short time. Her strength and humor lives on in these two spunky girls!

For Antoinette's memorial service in early August, the family will be sailing on The Chardonnay (a 70 ft sailing yacht which happens to be just above her head in this photo). She loved the Chardonnay and often walked Jema along the harbor, stopping to sit on the benches in front of the Chardonnay office.

Here is a link to her obituary
http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/santacruzsentinel/obituary.aspx?n=antoinette-marie-robison&pid=165562211#fbLoggedOut

Saturday, July 20, 2013

Update

Okay. Here's how this works....

I'm babysitting. Helping a friend and also gaining some very valuable popsicle sticks (good old-fashioned babysitting currency around these parts) and I have exactly thirty minutes left before she gets home to update months worth of blog posts.

Here goes....

Having been knee deep in the car business lately (sold two, bought two, one more to sell), we've been washing cars a lot! We wash them, show them, move mulch in them, wash them, show them again, wax them, leave wax on too long, scrub for hours, etc. Here's JR and the girls hard at work on the old Nissan truck. This was in May and the girls can still tell you the name of the guy who drove off in Daddy's truck. It hit them pretty hard, even though they had never ridden in it.


Mother's Day at the Zoo... The girls weren't all that interested in taking a photo with me, so we bribed them into acting like they liked me. True story. I can't remember what we bribed them with but it must have been good!!


As seems typical for Boise in May and June, we have a few scorching hot days (or so we think) and then it cools off again for a few weeks in early/mid June. What better way to pass at least two minutes on one of those early scorchers than with a turtle sprinkler? They really did lose interest that quickly and haven't given the turtles the time of day since. Can we expect three minute attention spans next year and four the following year? Maybe we'll keep the turtles around to test the theory.


Oh dang.... time just ran out. 


Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Spring +3







Spring has Sprung...

and summer break is just around the corner. This momma is looking forward to a little r & r!

I took my counseling licensure exam in April (no results yet), graduated on May 11th, and am officially way behind on paperwork at work with only a week left. This post is some serious procrastination.... while sipping a cocktail at Sunray Cafe. Hey, if you're going to be off-task, might as well do it right!

Here's a glimpse of what we've been up to lately....

Visiting daddy at work...


Trips to the zoo....




Reading in Mommy's 40 year old embroidered shirt (made with love by Mum)


Raiding the box of hand-me-downs for dress up...


More potty practice...


Bathtub fun...


Snow days (okay this was a few months ago)...